So. I’m fed up with my friends telling me that I should communicate with multiple people at the same time. They say that a man can’t be communicating only with me. Oh, thanks for the support, ladies! I am a multi-tasker in my vanilla life. I have to be. However I cannot be a multi-taskerContinue reading “Can you juggle?”
Monthly Archives: November 2021
A Safe word is for both of us
Someone said there is no need for a safe word if it’s only sex. I said that’s not correct. It’s sex within a BDSM context. It’s easier if I just use my circumstances. Our first meeting is likely to be a sex only. So no need for a safe word? I, as an experienced sub,Continue reading “A Safe word is for both of us”
Imagine and masterbate
Oh. My Black Friday purchase has arrived. That was quick. One thing that massively improved in Australia during COVID is postal service. Not to the standard of my home country but happy enough. So. From time to time, of course I do have unstoppable sexual desire I can’t fill it. Usually I am able toContinue reading “Imagine and masterbate”
A disaster and black friday shopping
Maybe a lighter post? I kept drafting something and then stopped them because they were too serious and I was crying. multiple posts. A disaster struck twice yesterday. My new bra that I bought a while ago was too big. My new skirt that I recently bought was too big. I was cursing as IContinue reading “A disaster and black friday shopping”
Hug, kiss and showing affection
When I moved to the USA, when I was around 7 years old, from my home country, I didn’t know what to do when the teacher hugged and kissed the students a good bye every afternoon. The teacher always teased me saying ‘will you kiss me good bye today?’ with a wink. And then, IContinue reading “Hug, kiss and showing affection”
Here I present to you…
I am going through my wardrobe. I need to decide soon or will be late for our first meeting. My hand going through the clothes stops.My mind wanders.There on my chair, there is an outfit that I chose. About a week ago.No it was much earlier than that. I decided which bra to wear.I decidedContinue reading “Here I present to you…”
Insecurity and acceptance
So OK. Many of you may have noticed that I keep posting and then hiding the posts. There is no reason for doing so. I use this space to note my thoughts, then may change my mind or edit them afterwards. So why does it need to be public? Not sure. I’ve always used blogsContinue reading “Insecurity and acceptance”
Pain slut….or am I?
I write a lot. There are other blogs that I write in my native language. I write all day, providing advice to others. I write reports, procedures and policies all day long. However, there are topics I can’t express what I have in my mind. Am I into pain? I can’t answer this question. IContinue reading “Pain slut….or am I?”
Love or hate…Fetlife
I sometimes love Fetlife and sometimes hate it. I turn my profile on and off. I love the fact that they limit what you can delete. I hate the fact that they limit what you can delete. Until recently, I never used Fet to look for a partner. Usually we met somewhere else (online orContinue reading “Love or hate…Fetlife”
Locked
One of my hobbies are drawing/painting which I have been doing for 20 years. I was sketching / painting some BDSM scenes today and thought…I can’t show this to anyone…but on reflection, I should probably come up with something that I can use here…. I can’t say what I want if I were to meetContinue reading “Locked”